To echo the sentiment of many a wallet-shocked father (mine included), flowers for a wedding always cost MUCH more than one expects. Even with the most modest of expectations, the natural flora one remembers picking from the garden, or ordering for a holiday can escalate once a bride is involved.
Why? Several reasons. You are paying for service, style and arrangements (not just flowers!) While bouquets and centerpieces look simple, they never are. Stems are treated according to their type, the blooms are treated specifically to hold all day and through weather. Water is treated to extend the life of your goods, and the composition is everything!
OK, so even if you can appreciate all of that, it doesn't mean you can afford it all. Flowers can differ greatly in cost depending on the time of year and breed. How can the basic stem be that much more than the flowers you pick up from the deli? They are usually the leftover stock from the vendors that everyone else didn't want. If you don't ask the right questions, your florist may not know how to help you meet your needs. If you love a particular flower, but can't afford them, ask the florist if there are suggestions on similar, less expensive flowers that will achieve it. Express what your priorities are....
However, if you want to be truly unique, you can forgo flowers altogether. Check out some of these crafty creations as an alternative to roses...
A little edgy, a little jazzy. Crystal and feathers give a modern update to the bouquet. You can place an order with
Emplume studio. Prices start at $225. If you splurge on the bouquet, you (and helpers!) can probably make the bouttonieres yourselves. A few
supplies, floral tape and pin will do...
Beach Wedding? When the sand and ocean are your courtyard, seashells just make sense... You can use shells that you picked up on vacations you took as a couple (just make sure they are not occupied! I speak from experience).
Love the ornate look of embroidery, but ended up with a simple gown? A beaded bouquet glams up any dress. This one is handmade by designer
Terry Kowalczyk and available for
$190.00
Vintage or Steampunk? An antique button bouquet from
Lil Fish Studios.
If you make it yourself, it might be a good way to incorporate items from friends and families (and not have to wear that ugly old heirloom gown that doesn't fit you!)
Origami Tulips for $22.50 from artist Arguing The Mobius. Commission a bunch, or
make your own. (Trust me, it's easier to hire the artist)
